I just finished reading All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr. Riveting and suspenseful, the book is one of my new favorites, and I would highly recommend that you read it.
One of the main characters, Werner, is a young German boy growing up in the shadows of Hitler’s Third Reich. Werner is a genius – an expert at fixing radios and solving math and science problems. His dream is to become one of Germany’s leading scientists, but as war ravages Europe, his plans must be put on hold, as he is required to fight.
At one point, his commanding officer, watching Werner repair equipment with brilliance and speed, remarks sadly, “What you could be.”
I had a moment today where the same wondering floated to my mind as you creatively and analytically approached the final details of your group project.
What you could be.
…If you dumped your deplorable boyfriend.
…If you hadn’t texted him a revealing picture of yourself.
…If you believed that you deserved more than a 12-year-old boy who would exploit you by sharing that photo with his friends.
What you could be.
An 11-year-old in healthy relationships her friends and her family.
A student on the path to college and greater opportunity.
A young woman who defies the stereotypes about “girls from this neighborhood.”
What you can be.
It’s not too late. You can still be all of those things and so much more than anything I’ve dreamed up for you. What’s holding you back? Do you believe you deserve more than this? That you could be, can be so much more?
I know you’re not facing Hitler’s Germany. But you are facing internal obstacles that are challenging nonetheless. More than determining whether you are in love with a young man, you are also learning how to love and respect yourself.
What you could be is ultimately up to you. Who are you today? Who are you becoming?
All my love,